Thursday, October 2, 2008

His Mansion Ministries: The Other Mercy Ministries

His Mansion Ministries is an organization similar in many ways to Mercy Ministries, though it does not perform exorcism. I attended His Mansion for a week in the fall of 2001, just after the towers fell. His Mansion is a ministry that specializes in treating "alcoholism, drug addiction, sexual addiction, pornography, eating disorders, depression, and abuse." Its counselors are untrained counselors, who apparently follow a form of biblical counseling, though they do not advertise this. Biblical counseling is a form of counseling founded by Jay Adams, which holds that mental illness is a sin.
Unlike Mercy Ministries, His Mansion prided itself on its toughness. At the time I attended the program, the program boasted that 50% of its "clients" dropped out. His Mansion allowed psychiatric medication, but there was always an aura of one being "less than" for taking it. Like Mercy graduates, we were described as the "spiritual third world". According to the site , "Unless a young man or woman arrives at adolescence with certain very basic tools in their box, they will, statistically, develop “behavioral health problems.” (That is, they’ll become soul-sick from sin)". I can only conclude from this that they see depression as a behavioral soul sickness. That's certainly the way they treated me.
His Mansion allowed only six books for each resident, all of which have to be Christ-approved (a.k.a. theologically safe). Somehow, when I attended His Mansion, they let me read the Brothers Karamazov. Men and women were not allowed to speak to each other, except in the presence of one of their untrained counselors. After a week at His Mansion, I met my counselor. My counselor told me that my OCD was the result of pride, and that unless i repented of this pride, I would not get better. I replied that my OCD was the result of a chemical imbalance and refused to listen to him any further. When I wouldn't write on how my OCD had been caused by pride, the program kicked me out. Not, however, before two His Mansion workers yelled at me for six consecutive hours, telling me how I was accursed by God.
People who say therapies like His Mansion or Mercy Ministries are not harmful are kidding themselves. These ministries support their full-time staff by claiming to be charities, while in reality living off the suffering of the world around them. I have nothing but respect for the unpaid counselors at his mansion, who were idealists. But I suspect that much of the paid staff did quite well.
I am going to invite His Mansion to respond to this post, in the interest of fairness.

18 comments:

John Weaver said...

Oh, and guess who His Mansion provides links to:

http://hismansion.com/hmm/index.php?option=com_content&task=section&id=17&Itemid=68

You guessed it. Teen Challenge and Mercy Ministries.

Sean the Blogonaut F.C.D. said...

Sounds like boot camp style ministries - tough love. You have to wonder how many of these guys are rejects from the Armed forces/Police

Psst if you want to paste a link in blogger go

here

John Weaver said...

Sean,
I got an e-mail from His Mansion, aftre I e-mailed them to tell them about the blog. They apparently did not feel I was being fair. Oh well.
I still haven't figured out the blogger link thing. I looked at your link, but I was a little mystified (I don't know html).
His Mansion is a boot camp.

John

Sean the Blogonaut F.C.D. said...

John I will try and do a little tutorial video for you. That is probably easier than trying to write it down. I don't know html either. I just cut and paste from pre-written lists. You will kick yourself when you see how easy it is my friend

Lissa said...

Scary! I'm so sorry you had to go through that. How horrible. lol on the policd comment sean.

John Weaver said...

Dear Alissa,
Thanks for the comment. Yea, it took me quite a while to recover from His Mansion, and even now I'm not sure that I have, though the experience at GCC was worse. Pastor Gregson is a big supporter of His Mansion (his daughter was a student there), so sometimes I worry he's going to refer someone there.

Best wishes,
John Weaver

Lissa said...

interesting to know. I may have to bring the issue of mental illness up when I start the inquirers class at Covenant next week. I am not necessarily joining the church, but I want to check out what they believe more in depth and then make a decision. I don't know that someone's stance on mental illness would stop me from joining the church necesarily. I don't think I'll find a church that I completely agree with everything to be honest... Also, I figure I could be helpful to people in the church who are suffering, and I know there are, just because I can relate and validate their feelings. Just things that are going through my mind.

John Weaver said...

Alissa,
Just be careful. Don't let Covenant influence how you believe about mental illness. I found myself secretly believing many of the things they said about the mentally ill when I was there. It's such a close knit community that it's hard not to.
Just concerned about you, as always.Take care.

John


John

Lissa said...

k well I will bear that in mind. I think I'll probably be allright since I still don't belive in infant baptism and I am also not a Sabbatarian which are two other big beliefs of the church. So hopefully I can survive this disconsonance as well (I think that's the right word but you would know better than me, Dr. Weaver;) I am not dismissing your experience of course--everyone has a different experience, and i can understand that this just may be an area where I will have to just agree to disagree with the pastor or others about their opinion. Not sure if I feel like arguing right now with anybody but I'll see--haha. I'm usually pretty non-combative--go with the flow. Either that or I will decide to go somewhere else to church. I can understand from what you say that it may be a struggle though, so I will bear that in mind. Alissa

John Weaver said...

Dear Alissa,
I completely understand. And who knows, Covenant may be good for you. At least you'll be with your family, which is great. I'm just a worryer. Yea, I never really bought into the infant baptism thing, though I don't think it's an issue to get too worked up about anyway. I had forgotten that sabbitarianism was a big issue there. Explains why Dave Barker used to yell at my brother and I (and our parents) for practicing soccer on Sundays.

Take care,
John

Fritz said...

John,

I am sorry to hear of your experience at His Mansion. I can not speak to the things that happened to you. It was before my time. Know that His Mansion has made some significant changes in the counseling. As the Director of Counseling I am a trained clinical therapist and so is the women's counseling supervisor. I believe we are much better at undersatnding the difficulties of mental illness, (and actually believe it exsists) and the importance of medication. In addition I beleive we are doing better at training lay counselors to listen and care. For example, we know that self injury is a means to relieve anxiety and/or deal with the deep trauma of the past. Threatening and causing more shame is not the way to help.
Again, I am sorry that His Mansion added to your pain.

John Weaver said...

Dear Fritz,
That does make me feel better. I am concerned, though, that His Mansion provides links to both Freedom Village and Mercy Ministries. There have been some questionable reports in the media about the former. As for Mercy, its abuses are well documented on several sites.
That being said, I really do appreciate you taking the time to come on the site and talk. I think that if His Mansion did change its treatment regimen, it would be a postive step in the right direction. I just can't speak to His Mansion's changes . . . I can only speak to its past, what limited knowledge I have of it, and to its present alignment with organizations I distrust.
Thanks so much for commenting, Fritz. Feel free to leave a post\comment any time.

Fritz said...

John,
Thank you for receiving my comment. I wanted to clarify something written in your opening comment. None of the long term staff are paid by the ministry - we are all supported by churches and individuals. Our hearts are to help - and for me - I am open to learning how to best do that and I constantly keep up contact via seminars and consultations with people and organizations outside the ministry. (By the way - to frame OCD as simply a pride issue is truly a gross misunderstanding of the struggle)

John Weaver said...

Dear Fritz,
Thanks for the clarification. I really appreciate your willingness to dialogue on this issue.

Best wishes,
John Weaver

Anonymous said...

I was at His Mansion in the early 90's, and I have to say that overall my experience was not a healthy one. There are certain things about the ministry that I loved and even miss today--such as working on a self-supporting farm and being in a close-knit community with daily opportunity to worship together.

From a counseling perspective, it was a damaging experience and I regret my time there. I was in the program both in the role of a "student" and in the role of a "staff person."

As a student, I was placed in a room with a girl who had only just graduated with a BA in Psych. An undergraduate psych degree prepares someone for an entry level role--such as doing psych interviews at an ER or intake processing at an institution. It does not qualify them to provide long-term unsupervised care. At His Mansion, my counselor was given 8 weeks of training provided by a "long-term staff" person who themselves had no formal training in psychology. After the 8 week training, they were granted 24 hour responsibility for 3 charges with next to no supervision.

During my time there, I was often shamed and yelled at by "staff" who did not have healthy personal boundaries and who would become reactive when a "student" did not comply with a request properly. I suspect that this is where their reputation as a boot camp comes from. The level of codependency operating at the program was astonishingly (but not surprisingly) high.

One trouble with yelling at dependant abuse (trauma) survivors is that it typically drives them further in to emotional disconnection and addiction. It achieves an opposite result from the goal.

When I entered the lay leadership (counseling) program, I had only completed 2 years as a psychology undergraduate. That and a buck-fifty will buy you a cup of coffee.

While I believe that the intentions of the men and women running the program were based in kindness and compassion; they were misguided in believing that it was appropriate to appoint themselves not only as therapists, but also as teachers of therapy, without first obtaining the proper credentials.

This is the cusp of the problem that I have with this ministry as it was in 1993: Any program that has untrained lay leaders teaching counseling skills to unqualified candidates will not only do a terrible job at training the candidate; by its nature it will attract candidates who should not be considered for such roles in the first place. Any college psychology department that trains talented counselors would discourage their graduates from applying for such internships.

I truly do hope things have changed now.

John Weaver said...

Dear anon,
I can't thank you enough for leaving comments here. For so long I felt like I was the only one. I'm not sure if the people that were there when I was there had any experience whatsoever in counseling or training for counseling, though Fritz has pointed out that this has since changed. Yelling at abuse survivors is inexcusable, whatever the reasons for it.

I'm not sure about past motivations myself, though I think Fritz seems genuine in wanting to help people. Still, I did get at least one nasty e-mail when I posted this, so maybe things aren't quite as good as we would wish.

Please keep in touch, anon. And thanks again for letting me know i'm not the only one.

Angela said...

John,
I would appreciate it if you could email me. I found your blog while doing a google search for His Mansion Ministries. My brother has a drug problem and I am trying to find some help for him. I haven't read you entire blog, but what I have read concerns me....
Thanks!
Angela
regisgaskin@aol.com

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